We’re so excited to create this incredible experience for you. Your boudoir session with Boudoir by Empower Her Studio isn’t just about photos — it’s about rediscovering your beauty, confidence, and strength. Below, you’ll find everything you need to prepare for your shoot, feel fully comfortable, and get the most out of this once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Start by collecting inspiration!
Create a Pinterest board with your favorite boudoir images — think poses, outfits, makeup looks, and moods that speak to you. Also, put your full name on your Pinterest board because otherwise we will have hundreds of boards and won’t know who is who!
You can also screenshot your favorite photos online or from our Instagram (@empowerherboudoir) to share your vision.
Our team member will text you to exchange ideas, talk about the vibe you want, and get detailed guidance to help you prepare your wardrobe and mindset before your photo session.
You can also schedule your consultation as soon as you book your session. We completely understand that for most of our clients, this is their first boudoir experience — and you might be curious about what to expect or want to plan ahead to make everything perfect. We’ll walk you through every detail so you feel confident and excited. You can text us anytime to schedule your call — we’re always happy to plan ahead together.
You’ve got this, gorgeous — and we’ve got you!
Here are some things to do (and not do) before your big day:
Need inspiration?
You can shop online at stores like Adore Me, Honey Birdette, Savage X Fenty, Fashion Nova, or Amazon.
Budget-friendly favorites include Yandy, H&M, and Frederick’s of Hollywood.
The best time to schedule your maternity session is when your belly is beautifully showing, usually between 23–34 weeks, and before 37 weeks. We highly recommend doing your session earlier, so your body feels more flexible for different poses and you won’t get too tired during the shoot.
You can easily search “maternity photography outfits” on Amazon and have outfits delivered within just a few days.
We do not provide maternity outfits, but we do have several chiffon fabrics available at the studio that we can pin and style into a beautiful dress for you
Life happens!
Please note that we need 10 days’ notice to reschedule both your appointments without penalty to your deposit.
We want you to look like you — at your absolute best!
Plan to spend about 3 hours at the studio.
Arrive right at your appointment time — no need to come early, as we may be with another client.
Bring your outfits, shoes, and accessories — we’ll handle everything else!
Eat something light and drink plenty of water before your shoot so you feel comfortable and energized.
While you’re in hair and makeup, we’ll go over your outfit choices, your ideas, and final details.
Once you’re dolled up, you’ll have time to change into your first look. You’ll have complete privacy throughout your session.
Take a deep breath and relax — it’s normal to feel nervous at first!
Our photographers will guide you through every pose, every hand placement, and facial expression. No need to practice — you’ll quickly find your groove and start having fun.
If any pose feels uncomfortable, let us know — we’ll adjust everything to make you feel fabulous and confident.
Body hair is completely your personal choice.
However, if you prefer not to show underarm or pubic hair in your photos, we recommend shaving before your session so we can maximize your shooting time and avoid needing touch-ups during the appointment.
False lashes add that extra dose of glam!
If you’re new to them, they might feel heavy for the first few minutes, but you’ll quickly forget they’re there.
To remove them later, gently wipe with warm water or makeup remover — they’ll slide right off.
We cover the cost of your hair and makeup, but if your stylist goes above and beyond, feel free to tip them in cash — they’ll be so touched! (They don’t even know this is in the guide — it’s our little secret 😉).
Plan something special after your shoot — go out to dinner or meet a friend! You’ll look absolutely stunning and feel on top of the world.
Need a little cover story for your glam look? Just say you stopped at the mall and got a free makeover 😉
You’re going to be so proud of yourself — and I’m already proud of you.
Let’s make magic together.
With love,
Ting Yi
Boudoir by Empower Her Studio
📍 Oak Ridge, NJ
